On this week’s episode, Melissa and I sit down with Dr. Yin Yang You must have polarity in your relationships. Get Out of Your Own Way Often times the only thing standing in the way of what you want is you.Ali Binazir, author of The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible and several other books. The power women have to bring light into a relationship, act as a goddess, and inspire men.Much more important than all of that: I've been on hundreds (hundreds! Translation: I know how guys think and what they like.And in clear, practical terms, I can teach how you can be the thing they like -- even love.How simultaneously empowering and pathetic: My entire love life can be summarized in mere paragraphs. Friendship means things in common, compassion, mutual respect. All those dramatic, chemical, sticky, everlasting affairs boil down to a handful of fleeting sentences. Osho calls friendliness “the highest form of love,” because friendship transcends neediness and lust.
I have already bought copies for my private coaching clients and could not recommend Dr.
the results, for me, were dramatic: I now feel like I have my pick of the litter a slew of fabulous guys who all clamor for my attention.' I believe that smart, successful women CAN have it all -- both a great career AND a rich, warm, fulfilling love life. See -- smart women like yourself were having unfulfilling love lives on an epidemic scale when I was an advisor at Harvard. Partially because I'm not your grandma, and partially because the 21st century poses unprecedented challenges to the modern woman.
They either couldn't find the right guy, were with the wrong guy, had relationships that didn't last, or had given up on dating entirely. With a high-powered career, it may seem that there just isn't time for love.
This is what readers say: 'I have read many books about relationships and dating, but The Tao of Dating is one of a kind, so different and mind-blowing in its common sense and simplicity that it is impossible to put it down once you start reading.' 'Well, where shall I start? I can think of no better praise.' '1.5 reads of the book in and I can honestly say that I not only have a clear sense of the basic things that I was doing that were completely throwing off the dynamic with these men, but that I now have simple, quite beautiful little tools in mind when I'm interacting with men that make me properly excited to date.
Everyday TV and other media specialize in portraying women as cheap and disposable. Just by reading it, one is restored to one's own heart.